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Netflix’s “Obsession”: A Damaged Story about BDSM

By Mimsy and Vagabond
In Entertainment
April 27, 2023
7 Min Read
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While much has already been written about Netflix’s four-part erotic thriller Obsession, the focus has been on the thin plot, overwrought music, and cringeworthy moments. But what about the BDSM and kink in Obsession that numerous click-baity headlines have mentioned? Just how kinky is this series? And is its portrayal of BDSM and kinky people authentic?

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Do “Fake” Doms Really Exist?

By Mimsy and Vagabond
In Dominance
March 30, 2023
4 Min Read
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There are dozens of warnings in the BDSM community about fake doms* and how to spot them. They’re inexperienced, they’re physically or emotionally abusive, they ignore limits and safewords, they gain submission through fear tactics, and so on. But is it correct to call these people “fake” doms? Or are they bad, real doms? Is there a difference?

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Essential Rope Bondage Tips for Beginners

By Mimsy and Vagabond
In Basics, Rope
February 23, 2023
10 Min Read
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Photographer and rigger: Vagabond; model: Mimsy

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When people ask for beginner rope bondage advice, the response is often that they should pay to join an advanced shibari tutorial website. While information on the intricacies of shibari and rope suspension may be useful for people who are farther along in their rope journey, this isn’t an accessible entry point for those who are just starting out. Here, we’ve collected some essential, user-friendly tips and tutorials for rope bondage beginners.

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Bondage Rope Roundup

By Mimsy and Vagabond
In Rope
February 20, 2023
6 Min Read
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Originally published Dec. 5, 2018; updated Feb. 20, 2023

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We fell in love with rope bondage at the beginning of our relationship, and it’s still a pivotal part of our play today. When you’re new to bondage, it can be overwhelming. What kind of rope should you buy? How do you decide? This guide is a breakdown of the pros and cons of the myriad types of rope on the market for bondage.

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