Authorvahavta, guest author

vahavta began her kink journey in St. Louis in 2013 and has been grateful for opportunities to teach, play, and learn in North Carolina, Chicago, and Israel along the way. Today, she serves her husband in a 24/7 Total Power Exchange and is often found sporting large bruises, writing, enjoying a good beer, or having wonderful conversations with new friends on Fetlife. In all aspects of her life—be that in her relationship, her pain tolerance, her athletic pursuits, or her service—she strives to be a work in progress.

Playing at Your Own Risk: creating a Risk Profile


Hi there. It’s me, the bad bottom your DomlyDom mentor warned you about. I won’t use safewords, and I don’t have a limits list. I don’t play with people who want them. I don’t get what I need from kink when those things are on the table. 

Dangerous, right? 

First of all: yes. 

And also: a totally legitimate way to play. 


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